Can we as parents keep up with the learning and growing curve that is so natural for our kids? I am talking about the learning and growing that is required of parents between themselves as their child grows. Their relationship must also grow and evolve as they encounter new interpersonal challenges. The love, tolerance, and understanding has to grow between them along with everything else, otherwise there is a type of energetic constipation that puts a stop to any progressive forward movement.
It is a challenge that must be met. They have to keep remembering that they are on the same team. That always helps. We have to become bouyant once again or the relationship simply cracks and frays at the edges.
Having kids puts you on a serious course for learning. It takes a lot of love, understanding, forgiveness, self-questioning, elasticity, and humor. Age comes naturally. You have to work for Wisdom.
It is a challenge that must be met. They have to keep remembering that they are on the same team. That always helps. We have to become bouyant once again or the relationship simply cracks and frays at the edges.
Having kids puts you on a serious course for learning. It takes a lot of love, understanding, forgiveness, self-questioning, elasticity, and humor. Age comes naturally. You have to work for Wisdom.